Kay Tara made a name for herself in R&B with her breakout single, “Don’t Want You Back.” The song has struck a chord with listeners through its melodic message about letting go of things that no longer serve you. She’s quickly become a recognized rising talent in the genre, thanks to her impressive vocals and captivating storytelling.
What inspired the creation of “Don’t Want You Back”?
It came from a desire to connect with listeners through my own experiences. I wanted to craft something raw and relatable. From there, the song naturally took shape.
Can you share the story or personal experience behind the lyrics?
I could definitely share the personal story behind it, but the beauty in my art is that it’s open to interpretation. We’ve all experienced seasons where it’s time to let go of something that no longer serves us. The goal is to create a space for listeners to connect and reflect on their own personal experiences.
How does this single reflect your growth as an artist?
This single really pushed me to step out of my comfort zone. I’ve always leaned towards feel-good tracks to avoid confronting the deeper, tougher emotions. But with this one, I dug into a different direction, creating something raw and unfiltered. It forced me to embrace a new level of honesty in my music—this is me, unapologetically. That’s growth.
What message do you hope listeners take away from this song?
What I hope listeners take away is the importance of embracing their truth and giving themselves the grace they often provide others. Too often, we put others first, but it’s just as vital to show up for ourselves. It’s about recognizing your worth and freeing yourself from what no longer serves you—. Growth happens when we face hard times, honor our emotions, and keep moving forward, even when it’s tough. This song serves as a reminder that you’re not alone in your struggles; even in your darkest moments, your strength lies in choosing to keep moving forward. It’s okay to carry the weight, but don’t forget to step into your power and continue onward.
Did you collaborate with any producers or writers on this track?
I am the writer for this track. I was sent a link to a selection of beats from an online store and instantly connected with one. I reached out to my hometown producer and got in the booth to bring it to life.
How would you describe your evolution as an R&B artist?
I’ve allowed myself to step into different spaces and experiment with new sounds. It’s not just about being an R&B artist anymore—I’m about switching things up and finding new ways to express who I am and what I feel. I no longer box myself in. I’m all about staying open to whatever feels right to me as a creative, no matter the genre.
Who are your biggest musical influences, and how do they shape your sound?
While I definitely draw inspiration from icons like Beyoncé, Kelly, Alicia, and Usher, my biggest influences are much closer to home—starting with my family. I come from a family that embraces music. My mom, along with my grandmother, played a huge role in helping me recognize my voice. My grandmother pushed me to believe in myself and encouraged me to push through my shyness. Ultimately, they’re the reasons I found my voice and always knew I had something to share.
What sets your music apart in today’s R&B landscape?
What sets my music apart is the authenticity and depth I bring to it. I’m not simulating anyone—I’m just being myself. R&B is known for its smooth vibes. I focus on what feels good to me while creating real connections with my listeners—whether it’s through storytelling, emotion, or blending different genres. There is no formula, so I don’t stick to one sound; I infuse my personal experiences into everything I create. I want my music to resonate on a deeper level, and not just sound good.
How has your personal life influenced the themes in your music?
Although it sounds cliche cause everyone says it, I got this out the mud. We could sit and talk about my personal life all day, but we don’t have to because my music allows you to get snapshots and reflections of my life. New drops coming soon. Stay tuned.
What was the creative process like for this single?
It was smooth. I had a concept in my mind. I started singing a melody- pieced it with a track and got busy.
Were there any challenges you faced while working on this track?
No. I knew exactly what I wanted from this record. I had a vision in my mind, and once I had that, I got right to it. Everything flowed naturally because I was focused on bringing that vision to life.
How did you feel the first time you heard the final mix?
The first time I heard the final mix, I felt like it needed more harmonies and fillers—it felt incomplete. But if you know me, I’m always striving for perfection. Over time, I just accepted that perfection doesn’t exist, and sometimes you just have to let it go. Once I did that, I appreciated the record for what it was and dropped it!
What’s your favorite lyric from the song, and why?
I don’t want you back. It’s direct, honest, and powerful. It’s that moment of clarity and strength, letting go of something that no longer served me. To me, that line captures the essence of the song. It’s the freedom and empowerment that comes from knowing your worth and keeping it pushing.
What feedback have you received from fans about “Don’t Want You Back”?
It’s been overwhelming in the best way. Hearing how the song resonates with listeners is crazy. Watching people embrace the record and start sharing their own stories makes it feel even more special. It’s that kind of connection that reminds me why I make music in the first place. It’s about creating something real that people can relate to.
How does it feel to connect with listeners on such a personal topic?
It feels like a hug. You get me? Knowing that listeners can relate to my music and feel something personal from it makes it all worth it. It’s like we’re sharing this unspoken bond and that connection is everything.
What role does social media play in promoting your music?
It’s unknown at the moment, just know I’ll be charting soon.
How do you see yourself contributing to the future of R&B?
I see myself contributing by pouring my voice, my experiences, and my stories into the music, to make real connections with my listeners. If I can make someone feel something—whether it’s that sense of closeness, understanding, or even just a moment of recognition—then I’ve done my part. For me, my contribution isn’t just about making good music; it’s about creating an emotional bridge that resonates on a deeper level, sparking something inside of the listeners that lingers long after the song ends.
